Putting your trust someone is essentially you making yourself more vulnerable, and a lot of people have trouble with that. I’ve been burned pretty badly in the past, by both close friends and romantic partners, and it has caused me to be extremely cautious about who I trust now. But when you meet someone who you really like, you to trust them…
it’s just that there’s always this nagging voice in the back of your head asking if this is really a good idea.
If your BF is always there to lend a shoulder to cry on or even just to listen to you vent, that's a good sign that you can trust him.
A guy who is there for you - who will help you when you need help, no matter what - also deeply cares about you.
It's normal if you need an outlet, but keep it a private one, like a journal or a heart-to-heart with mom.
Source: It can seem tempting to hatch a plan to break them up, but definitely do not do that. Yeah, you and your crush used to flirt, but that doesn't mean you should be trying to flirt with him now to make her angry.
Imagine now if another girl was all mad at you because of your new relationship status. Try to use that as a way to diffuse your probably complex feelings toward your crush's new GF.
For those of you who are stuck in this situation, here are 10 surefire signs you actually can trust him.
Now take a deep breath, and learn to let go of the past!
From what you wrote, it doesn’t sound like he’s getting bored with you or that anything is wrong or a warning sign.
I think he just doesn’t know that it feels that way for you.